Hysterical crying right after sex

2undertwo2bee

I think I have officially gone crazy. The last two times my husband and I have had sex as soon as I "o" I have to stop and start crying. Like the ugly cry. My husband thinks I'm crazy and I am starting to think I am too. Is this just something that happens towards the end of pregnancy? Has it happened to anyone else? It's really a turn off lol. And I have no idea why. I'm not sad. I just feel a rush of emotions.

nicolemummyof2

I wouldn't know but maybe it's just triggering a hormone. My husband's scared to have sex. I guess he thinks he's going to break me lol. So I guess at least your having sex. Not having sex makes me feel ugly. =(( or unwanted but I think he means well. Sorry I'm not much help.

jmorneau09

This has happened to me during both this and my previous pregnancy. It was kind of embarrassing at first but now my hubbs just knows it's just hormones.

2undertwo2bee

Thanks ladies for the response. And nicolemummy don't worry my husband freaks out too. I think it's a mental thing. I'm sure it's te same for your husband. I think it's hard for them to get over the fact that there's a baby right there. ESP as we near the end lol. Jmorneau I'm glad I'm not crazy. It's gotta be these crazy hormones. I'm ready to feel normal again

louloutte87

My husband can't have sex either, he thinks he's gonna hurt the baby

I've also cried afterwards closer to the beginning where hormones were all over the place. Very embarrassing!

ashleylane66

I've been having the same thing!!! I just feel so emotional that I freak out crying and then usually fall asleep... So it's like sex, ugly cry, snore!!!

chefnewmommy

At least you ladies are having sex.when we start then he doesnt stay aroused, or won't give me oral unless I ask. I'm so sexually frustrated. I feel like maybe he's not attracted to me or I gross him out. I've even thought he was cheating on me bc we went from having sex a few times a week to MAYBE having sex once every two weeks. I feel like he thinks I'm disgusting and is getting it from somewhere else, even tho the lack of sex is the only red flag. I caught him masturbating ( tmi sry) and got so angry bc CLEARLY you're aroused and horny .... Just not for me. It sucks.

Bmore112

We are the opposite. He is overly attracted at the pregnancy glow and can't keep his hands off me. He can resume sex like my belly isn't a huge obstacle between us. However I feel absolutely disgusting during when the baby is pushing down and kicking me, not to mention the fact that I have no idea how my shaving job is and the gross amount of discharge I have right now. I just feel gross and want to be left alone. I am 31 weeks.

buppydups10

Late to the convo but so glad I saw this. I started crying during sex today (bent over the bed so he couldn't see me) and feel ugly, fat, disgusting, haven't shaved in a while (can't see it lol) and overall emotional! I get nothing out of it, just doing it for him. I feel like a mess! It's gonna be a long ride until I feel better again ugh

hannahhassonn

@buppydups10 I feel you.

nvrswimalone

Oh my gosh. I'm so late to this but good lord I'm glad I'm not the only one. I sobbed hysterically after sex because I felt so awkward and uncoordinated. I needed to see this post.